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A Season for Compassion, Not Judgment
By Deborah Leonczyk, Guest Column
04:27PM / Wednesday, November 26, 2025
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As the holidays approach, our thoughts turn naturally to light. Candles in windows, lamps in temples, fires that warm the hearth, and strings of light that brighten long winter nights. In every faith tradition, light represents goodness, truth, and hope. It reminds us that even in the darkest season, there is something within us that can still shine.
 
This is also the season when compassion should burn brightest. Yet across the country, and indeed across the world, another force has grown stronger. It divides, judges, and determines who is "worthy" of help. 
 
Partisanship has become one of the greatest moral dangers of our time. When ideology replaces empathy, and compassion becomes conditional, we risk dimming that shared light that connects us all. More and more, public conversation around poverty and need is shaped not by understanding but by judgment. 
 
We hear people say, "They should help themselves," or, "I do not want my taxes to pay for them." Beneath those words lies a painful question: Who deserves to be helped?
 
That question has no place in a compassionate world. Need is not a moral flaw. The parent working two jobs and still falling short of the rent, the senior choosing between heat and medication, and the family one emergency away from crisis are not symbols of weakness. They are reminders that life is fragile, and that none of us stands alone.
 
When ideology divides us into the "deserving" and the "undeserving," we stop seeing people as human beings and begin to see them as arguments. The result is devastating. People feel shame instead of hope. Programs that lift families out of hardship become political battlegrounds instead of lifelines. The public conversation turns from compassion to contempt, and the light that should unite us grows dimmer.
 
But the holidays call us to something higher. Every tradition — Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, and many others — celebrates the triumph of light over darkness. It is the light of a candle, a lantern, or a flame that represents faith, renewal, and love. It is a symbol that transcends every ideology and every border.
 
The measure of a society is not how fiercely it defends its politics, but how faithfully it protects its people. The act of helping should never depend on belief, background, or political opinion. Compassion is not a partisan idea. It is the very light that illuminates our humanity.
 
At Berkshire Community Action Council, we see that light every day. It shines through volunteers who deliver food to neighbors, through donors who help families heat their homes, and through parents who give even when they have little to spare. Each act of kindness, however small, keeps the flame of hope alive.
 
Around the world, partisanship continues to draw lines through hardening hearts and dividing communities. Yet in this season of light, we are reminded that the greatest gift we can give is to erase those lines. True generosity begins when we help without judgment, when we see others not as categories but as fellow travelers traveling the same road.
 
This holiday season, let us keep the light of compassion burning. Let us refuse the idea that some are more deserving of care than others. Let us remember that the strength of any community lies not in how it debates, but in how it loves.
 
The world will not be changed by ideology. It will be changed by empathy. Every act of kindness, every warm meal, every moment of understanding adds light to a world that desperately needs it.
 
The Berkshire Community Action Council family wishes you a season full of light and hope for a better world.
 
Deborah Leonczyk is executive director Berkshire Community Action Council.

 

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